My name is Tania Tirraoro, founder and now CEO of Special Needs Jungle Ltd. We registered SNJ as a non-profit organisation in August 2014.
I am a journalist, author and parent of two sons who, a few years after this photo was taken, were both diagnosed with Asperger Syndrome.
I started this blog back in 2008, to help other parents, like us, who are entering the jungle of special needs education. It's a scary, stressful place. I was born in North Wales, and raised in a village near Warrington, Cheshire, in a single-parent family. I was always taught that if you wanted something you had to go out and get it, which is what I've always done. I may live in Surrey, but my northern working-class girl roots formed my character and I firmly believe the weakest among us should be supported and not vilified, victimised or abandoned.
I worked in broadcast news for a decade before we had our boys. Going back to work full-time wasn't feasible because we knew instinctively that they were not, "your average bears". But it was a journey, and one that many others will recognise, to discover why that was, what it was that was different and how to find the help they needed. There was little help from schools; not because they didn't want, to but because they didn't have the knowledge or the resources.
We have been through the process and come out the other side with our sons being funded by statements of SEN to attend an independent special school. It wasn't easy, it took a lot of research, time and hard work. We didn't use a lawyer but did have support from the National Autistic Society's Advocacy Service, which is an excellent port of call.
We were initially told our younger son wouldn't get a statement because his needs weren't severe enough so it wasn't worth trying. However by the time he was in junior school his progress had stalled and because his learning style was so different to most children it became apparent that he could not be adequately supported in mainstream.
We applied for a Statutory Assessment but were turned down. We appealed to SENDIST and the LA backed down before the hearing, agreeing to assess our son.
I realised if I wanted my son to get what he needed I had to put in the work myself. For many long hours, I researched all the policies and information available from the LEA on the internet, analysed all my son's reports, and wrote an extremely long document complete with many appendices about why my son should have a statement. I included Ed Psych reports, Paediatricians reports, OT reports, examples of his work, lists of strategies tried and IEPs generated and quoted any relevant information I could.
I also built up a good relationship with our SENCo who provided me with as much information as I needed, without overstepping the boundaries of what she was "permitted" to do by the LEA.
My son was given a statement without further argument but the Draft Statement said the LEA thought he could be supported in mainstream. I wrote another long document, using the reports in his Draft Statement that I had not previously seen and went through the statement's recommendations line by line finding it was full of holes. I sent my new document back to the LEA, including a basic cost analysis for the support it said he needed compared with the fees at the independent special school we had found that could meet his needs. I pointed out that having put this much effort in I would be fully prepared to go back to Tribunal if necessary.
Within a week, they had agreed to pay my son's fees at his new school, much to our relief and that of our bank manager. Having learned so much during the process, I wanted to use the information I had gathered to help others in our situation. The moral of my story is, I believe, never give up on what you believe in, ask for help if you need it and be prepared to put the work in because no one else will.
A year later, we walked the same road getting a statement for our older son. I found the resources on this site useful for myself to refresh my memory! Again we were initially turned down but minds were changed and now he too is funded at the same school. I didn't have to go to Tribunal myself, largely, I believe because of the case I put together, but I know many who have.
It shouldn't be like this but so far, the new SEND system has caused chaos, pain and confusion for many families.
I hope parents can use this blog to find useful information and resources and that you will feel able to share your own experiences and resources with you.
I worked on the Surrey Pathfinder trialling and developing the changes, as co-chair of Surrey's Parent Carer Forum, and I'm now on Surrey's Local Offer steering group and have set up and currently run, the social media for the Local Offer. I also sit on the new Ofsted SEND Advisory group.
My sons have now left school and successfully won places for university, thanks to the help they received. Please take this as hope that your child, if similar to mine, will be able to do the same.
Read Tania's posts
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The SEND system is fractured, if not broken. Three new reports prove it.
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Ofsted SEND Facebook chat to be hosted by Special Needs Jungle!
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Ofsted and CQC report on one year of SEND inspections. It isn’t pretty.
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Two-thirds of England’s schools lack support for best outcomes for SEND pupils
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Schools breaking the law on helping children with medical conditions
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What does it take to get a disabled child to preschool?
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Why sixty minutes of low-sensory shopping will be bliss for my autistic son and me.
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Our wish for a mainstream school turned into a nightmare
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Put your question about SEND to the Department for Education (2017)
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Steph’s chronicle of her family’s journey through SEND, cancer and loss
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UK government is failing disabled children says United Nations
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The worrying trend of social care tactics to target SEND ‘problem parents’
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SEND Blogger showcase 4: Rainbows, Broccoli and Wristbands
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Home to school transport policies “inaccurate and inadequate”
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Bring your child’s teacher to Whole School SEND’s second summit for free!
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SEND Blogger Showcase 3: Life and ASC & A Wheelie Great Adventure
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IAS Service: Supporting families of children with SEND
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SEND Blogger showcase 2: Mum On A Mission & Our Altered Life
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Would you want your child to be on a national GP autism register?
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SEND blogger showcase: itmustbemum & The Long Chain
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Choosing a mainstream school for my disabled child
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SEND in England, 2017: More in Independents, fewer in Academies
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Horror stories: Recent SEND research for your summer reading
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End of school SEND report: Must try harder
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Going to Uni: The Disabled Students Allowance assessment
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How I became a better child physio after parenting my sick newborn
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The Secret Life of Holly, from the Disabled Children’s Partnership
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Exploring Autism and Music, a chance to listen, learn and participate
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Helping carers and disabled children with Qigong
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How do you help a disadvantaged child build confidence and find success? [Conference]
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SEND 2017, the state of the special educational needs system revealed
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The SNJ #GE2017 Manifesto for Special Educational Needs and Disability
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Tackling the lack of diversity in books for deaf children
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The frustration and heartbreak of Pathological Demand Avoidance
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Good mental health support needs one thing: proper funding
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SEND, support staff and challenging behaviour in schools.
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Your views invited to help set the agenda for Whole School SEND
Last month Barney and I participated in the Whole School SEND Summit, spreading our message in a roundtable at the…Continue reading »
Explaining new funding rules for early years children with SEND
Funding is always a hot topic in local authorities and schools and nowhere more so than in special educational needs. From…Continue reading »
Special needs lawyer calls for election pledge to solve SEND disarray
A young lawyer specialising in special educational needs, who himself has SpLD, has warned the parties in the upcoming election urgent…Continue reading »
Inclusion and putting the ‘Disability’ back into SEND
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Holly’s autism film starring role helped raise her classmates’ awareness
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Wanted: Occupational Therapist AND two Speech and Language Therapists for outstanding Surrey school
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Children with SEND risk rejection by mainstream schools over funding gap
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Is autism a difference or a disorder? The truth is in-between
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Supporting families to participate in making person-centred decisions
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What’s in a name: Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome gets an important makeover
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All about ALLFIE and its campaign for truly inclusive education
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How a parent held her council to account for its SEND failures
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£215 million cash boost for local areas to improve SEND facilities
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The SEND Superheroes ready to spruce up your school’s provision
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The heartache that lives alongside our son’s very rare disease
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Finding my son near death started our rare journey to his genetic diagnosis
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YouGov survey: Teachers blame “parental pressure” for misdiagnosis of SEN
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Post 19: Education, health, care and training support for disabled young people
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A 16 year quest to diagnose our rare bendy daughter
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Whole School SEND Summit: learn, contribute & share good practice
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Parents of children with learning disabilities lonely, distressed and under pressure
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Interweb Safety Day: The stuff you don’t know as parents but should
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Using Minecraft to engage children with science learning
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The Care Act when transitioning from children’s to adult social care
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How satisfied are pupils, parents and teachers about SEND in schools?
At the end of last week, a couple of surveys were published by the Department for Education. One was a…Continue reading »
Will more cash guide the battered ship of SEND reform to calmer seas?
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A new year, a new leaf? What’s your SEND wish for 2017?
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- SNJ’s Christmas SEND wish-list for Santa and a few thanks too…
- Tips for keeping up your child’s literacy over the holidays
- Shining a light on great practice in SLT and communication
- Surrey gets a spanking from Ofsted in its SEND inspection
- Adelle’s dyslexia helped her find her strengths as a GB athlete
- Talking about alcohol with your special needs teen
- New format for SNJ’s SEND system Flow Charts
- Future in Mind? Progress on child mental health plan a national disgrace
- Can you help harness parental knowledge about genetic intellectual disability?
- The Scott Schools and Colleges SEND report: It’s really rather depressing
- Parent pens The Children’s Guide to Autism
- #CRDN2016 Looking to the future where patients and carers are always involved in their care
- Testing for children with SEND: The Rochford Review
- Why sharing best practice in autism benefits everyone
- We challenged our son’s school over disability discrimination
- Amplify your experience of rare disease with Rare Barometer Voices
- Why did my PDA son have to fail in five schools before I was listened to?
- Autism Hero Awards: A win for SNJ!
- The advocate leading a summit to make patient and medical collaboration less ‘rare’
- What parents wish teachers knew about their special needs child
What we said, where we’ve been, what we made in 2015!
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Merry Christmas from Special Needs Jungle
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One family’s wild ride in the pursuit of post-16 provision
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Will these figures make councils think twice before forcing parents to the SEND Tribunal?
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What parent carers told the Minister at his SEND reform stock-taking session
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Disabled Students Allowance cuts: Is it time to extend the EHCP to universities?
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Patient Solidarity Day 2015
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Don’t let over 16s fall through the EHCP information cracks
[caption id="attachment_12537" align="alignright" width="350"] Luca, who's 18 today and in Surrey Youth Music Theatre[/caption] Today is Son1's (Luca) 18th birthday!…Continue reading »
Some Sunday wisdom from Maya Angelou
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#WiseWords: Strong souls come from suffering
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Have your say to lift the barriers to play for children with complex disabilities
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An SNJ Infographic of the latest SEND statistics 2015
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Best Practice: a parent’s view of a good EHCP Transition experience
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Ask the DfE: Put your SEND queries directly to the man at the ministry
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Selective Mutism: When anxiety shuts down the power to speak
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Mental Capacity and young people with SEND: A quick primer
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The what, when and how of Independent Support for the EHCP process
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Inspirational SEND education events and a speech that says it all
[caption id="attachment_12121" align="aligncenter" width="600"] The gathering[/caption] [caption id="attachment_12119" align="aligncenter" width="600"] The launch team with Sarah Driver, centre[/caption] Yesterday Angela and…Continue reading »
Driver Youth Trust report: SEND reforms led to “Fragmented provision, chaos and confusion”
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Consultation on SEND Accountability launched. We look at the big picture
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- Merry Christmas and thank you from SNJ
- £31 million extra SEND reform funding- but is money the whole problem?
- Flu vaccination available for children & young people with learning disabilities in England
- Childhood acquired brain injury- Would you know if your child was affected?
- How goes the development of the Local Offer?
- A shameless shout out for a very special school
- National survey launched: Are SEND Further Education students getting the choices they deserve?
- Anti-Bullying Week: Violent Bullying of SEND children widespread in England’s schools
- The power of reflexology on children with special needs
- Mum of dyslexic children launches Drive for Literacy
- Our flow charts included in latest official SEND reform info pack!
- An unintentional Mystery SEND Shopper
- Transfer from LDA to EHCP? Can I be bothered?
- Our SEN legal Twitter #SNJSENchat with IPSEA: Read it here
- Don’t miss the first answers from SNJ’s “Ask Jane” legal agony aunt!
- Trainee teachers rate SEN as one of poorest aspects of their training
- How a school’s Nurture programme is supporting students from ‘catch-up’ into ‘heads-up’
- Teaching teachers and parents about social media safety
- Some ideas for teachers get started with parental co-production
- The SNJ week in review – posts, presentations and parties!
- Our best personal posts of 2013
- Merry Christmas from Special Needs “Jingle”!
- Cerebra supports a seat enabling family activities for disabled children
- Christmas is coming and my son is getting stressed…
- Join us & back Jane’s campaign to improve legal rights in SEN Bill
- Two big days in one – one global, one personal, both huge news!
- Some SEN statementing questions answered
- Join Carers UK and act now so parent carers are not left behind
- When Tania went to #BlogFest and other stories
- Confirmed: No statutory support for Uni Students in SEN reforms
- The letter ‘D’ for Disability, M’Lud
- Crossing over: have your say on moving to the new SEN system
- How to help manage your children’s pain
- Warrior to worrier: When an SEN mum drops the ball
- Something for the weekend: Draft Code of Practice published and lots more
- SEN Reform: It’s going to be a busy autumn
- And the Rest-E winner is…
- NEW Special Needs Jungle site launched!
- Add the power of your voice to #ThisIsMyChild
- Gently changing perceptions: DownSideUp, a blog we love
- Merry Christmas from Special Needs Jungle!
- SEN Pre-Legislative Scrutiny report- a précis and my views
- My pick of parents’ guest posts on Special Needs Jungle this year
- Vitamin D deficiency – ASD Son2 suffers, your child might too.
- What now for Asperger’s?
- Son1 is 15 today-and proof that the right support can work miracles
- Pathfinders, politics and parental co-production
- SEN Minister offers assurances to parents over Bill wording
- Speech Therapy to stay within educational provision – so said the man from the DfE
- Charlotte’s amazing brain – a heartfelt story about childhood stroke
- Keep Us Close – Scope’s campaign for better local disability services
- Can you help with Pathological Demand Avoidance Research?
- Common sense prevails with more time to test the SEN reform proposals
- The Brain Injury Hub – a brilliant resource
- 10 Tips for Developing Your Child’s Language Skills
- SEN Reforms: professional views to the select committee
- Beech Lodge: A new school offering a practical approach to learning
- Parents on the Warpath…and other stories
- Stop the DLA Takeaway campaign – your help needed
- When SEN Tribunal looms, seek legal advice
- Special Educational Needs stories of the week
- Christmas Giveaway – a copy of my SEN Book
- SEN & Special Needs Stories I’ve spotted this week
- “What’s the difference between a problem child and a child with a genuine problem? – Video
- SEN round up for this week
- Book Review of Special Educations Needs: Getting Started with Statements
- IPSEA – A wonderful charity for free advice and support for SEN
- SEN stories that caught my eye this week (w/e2nd Dec)
- New website to increase SEN charity awareness
- SENAC for Special Needs Advice in Northern Ireland
- Why I’m backing the call for a revolution in ICT teaching
- Finished at School – Important Campaign by Ambitious about Autism
- SEN Stories of interest in the last week
- What do parents of a newly-diagnosed child need?
- My article in SEN Magazine: Can teachers recognise SEN in bright pupils?
- SEN stories that caught my attention this week.
- 1-2-3 Magic – the discipline system that saved my sanity
- Autism diagnoses are more common in an IT-rich region.
- A brilliant review of my SEN book from an award-winning blogger
- Education and Training (Young People with Autism) Bill introduced.
- Should children with Asperger Syndrome automatically be statutorily assessed?
- The Lamb Inquiry – a review
- The Lamb Inquiry
- New Autism Act Passes Final Hurdle
- Don’t Write Me Off – NAS campaign
- Daily Mirror Launches Caring For Carers Campaign
- Back to school – but is it the right one?
- More House – A School To Be Proud Of
- Books I recommend for Special Needs
- Journey’s End for our Statement – And a Brighter Future.
- Rose Dyslexia report – will it be enough?
- An Actor’s Life For Him.
- Asperger’s Links Blog
- Give ASD children the school provision they need
- Mother behind autism advert meets Brown – London Evening Standard
- Child-Free.. as free as the wind blows..
- See my other blog – Not As Advertised
- UK lacks Adult Autism/Asperger’s Services
- Long ago..when I was somebody
- Many autism cases ‘undiagnosed’ – BBC News