The dog, the hand-washing and the ASD child.

Leo
Leo the Labradoodle

As you may have read, we've just got a puppy, a labradoodle. He's very cute and has transformed our elder ASD son's life. The dog is the first thing he thinks about in the morning and the last thing on his mind at night. He's even okay at scooping the poop without fuss, although washing his hands afterwards is a bit more of a problem.

Our younger son, who loves dogs, has got the hang of the hand washing, just not the dog. He is definitely not the pack leader where the puppy is concerned. The dog jumps and nips at him all the time which Youngest finds very distressing because he loves to pet him. The hand-washing though is going over the top. Youngest has always been known as a very, very clean child. He never forgets to cleanse his hands after using the lavatory and spends so long in the shower I'm surprised Al Gore isn't on our doorstep offering a lecture on water wastage.

Every time Youngest so much as brushes against the puppy with his hands, he's at the sink, massaging soap into his fingers and doing an inadequate rinse job. It's become so bad that in the space of two weeks, he's come down with eczema on his knuckles. Turns out, he was using washing up liquid instead of handwash and, despite it being an eco-friendly detergent, it's apparently not done his skin any good at all. He's now been prescribed a special handwash by the doctor that he can use as much as he likes and he carries a tube of aqueous cream around in his pocket for use at school. Sadly however, I think getting the dog to see him as anything more than another play thing is going to take longer to sort out.

Tania Tirraoro
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Kathleen

My oldest is also a hand washing “expert”..I had to moniter the soap as he was using a whole container a day!