Clare's son was written off as lazy by teachers as a child. Severely Dyslexic and Dyspraxic, he faced an uphill battle in learning to read and write, let alone trying to succeed at French lessons alongside his peers in mainstream state school.
At school he was bullied by other pupils, segregated in food technology lessons because of allergies and given detentions because working memory problems meant he could not remember to bring everything he needed to class.
Clare said: "I was told by a Teacher at my Son's School when he was six years old and she didn't believe he was dyslexic , she said, he will never be an Einstein” I looked at her straight in the eyes and said “Do you realise Einstein was Dyslexic?” the look on her face was a picture, as though she wanted the floor to swallow her up"
Clare was determined that her son should get the support he needed that was not available at his school near Camberley. She fought Hampshire County Council for more than two years until they were forced by a Special Needs Tribunal to fund Michael at a specialist school that could help him achieve his potential.
This month, after much hard work, Clare's son was ecstatic to learn he had scored an A in GCSE English that he sat before Christmas. Clare believes it's a direct result of him getting the support he needed to overcome his problems:
"How amazing! It just shows if a Dyslexic person is taught properly they can be amazing at English. I'm so proud of him."
Even though the process of getting the support in place made Clare ill, she now helps other parents who are struggling with the Special Educational Needs System to get their children the help they need so they have the opportunity to do as well as her own son.
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